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Make Her Climax!

Every woman has her own unique needs in order to orgasm. Many women may feel that because they can’t reach a climax is a sign of some physical problem, it isn’t. It’s about learning what stimulates her and then mastering those techniques. It is not as difficult as it may sound but if you really want to know how to make a woman orgasm, read on…

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Hi. A while back, I was chronicling the life of a very confused individual. Gender, sexuality, and identity were all at war with each other for the control of two seemingly separate people sharing the same body.

I couldn’t do it forever, and so the transition revealed itself. One by one, the walls fell – select coworkers, my poker game, my childhood friends, the hormone pills – I wasn’t two people and my gender was nothing to be ashamed of. People proved to be amazingly accepting and compassionate, until… Read the rest of this entry »

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Some three or so months ago, I began turning my gender-confused thoughts into gender-confused writing. I knew I liked being Erin more than being male, but was often very insecure and still frequently defaulted back to a male persona, mostly out of fear, for more mundane activities like helping a friend move or going to the pharmacy.

I was in a relationship with a partner who ultimately had a hard time emotionally accepting that I had two separate identities. I knew that wasn’t true, but in my naïveté had allowed myself to fall into that trap. There’s a big difference between saying I’m Erin and acting, believing, or living that way, and I knew I had to change. Read the rest of this entry »

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Monogamy is really a sexist word, but it rolls off the tongue a bit easier than “monoandry,” so we’ll stick with it. It’s an ideal many of us aspire to, yet despite all the religious commandments and alimony payments dissuading us from having multiple sexual partners, yet we end up doing it anyway. Having multiple partners carries a stigma – you’re a slut, you’re a cheater, you’re dirty, and so on.

Sure, there are some people who do not care whose emotions they screw with, and some who don’t care what diseases they spread. I’m not here to talk about them. They key word in any sexual activity is “consent.” It’s what separates love from violence, and cheating from enjoying an open relationship. Read the rest of this entry »

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My sexuality is part of the reason I express my gender the way I do, yet I keep glossing over the topic every time it sneaks into my entries. Yes, I still like girls, so I’m trans and lesbian if you want some labels.

Just as important as the gender of my partners is what we’re into – BDSM, which might be more commonly referred to as S&M. Here’s the short explanation of what this is: The term “BDSM” is an amalgam of Bondage/Discipline (tying people up), Dominance/Submission (power exchange), and Sadism/Masochism (pain or other unusual sensations). Read the rest of this entry »

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