Archive for January, 2008

Love and Sex: Synonymous?

Tuesday, January 22nd, 2008

What Keeps it Hot? Three: You don’t have to blow a load in her face
Village Voice Sex Advice column Loveismakingoutafteryou’veblownaload had me laughing but in the end, it had me thinking as well. Is this what love has come to? Something defined by the publicity of sexual acts and lack of concern over each other’s [...]

Grief

Monday, January 21st, 2008

Erectile Dysfunction changes our lives. Nothing will ever be the same again. We must cope, accept and adjust. When a loved one dies we go through a grief process.
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross wrote a book on the five stages of grief when coping with death. When we are faced with Erectile Dysfunction we face a tremendous grief. [...]

Private Pain

Friday, January 18th, 2008

The old saying, ‘If at first you don’t succeed – try, try, again’, works for certain scenarios. It doesn’t work for erectile dysfunction. Failure is a devastating experience. Repeated failure is a tragedy. The failures build till the mountain is impassable. Communication is a foreign word. Blame, guilt and edginess [...]

Sexless Marriage Book

Thursday, January 17th, 2008

What is hindering couples from having full, rich sex lives? It seems that though it’s widely believed that it is women who aren’t interested, in truth men are halting the marriage bed cha-cha just as often. The article “Find Out What You Can Do to Fix Your Sex Life” features advice in the form of [...]

What Keeps It Hot? 2

Tuesday, January 15th, 2008

Two: Rough and Tumble Kinda Night
You’ve got to keep things interesting. What you do to achieve that is up to you. It can be exciting to switch from the gentle lovemaking to rough, let’s-do-it-for-the-sake-of-sex sex. I’m not saying you should pin a girl down and do her from behind with your foot on her face, [...]