Anger is a destructive and powerful emotion.  Silent anger is the worst and can cause an intense emotional meltdown.  Unresolved anger can eat away at your soul and demolish your self worth.  The words Erectile Dysfunction can invoke a cruel smoldering anger within us – if we are inflicted with the dreaded disease.  To some it’s a joke and it would never happen to us or we would NEVER admit it.
The definitions of anger – grief, rage, fury, indignation, wrath, displeasure – emotional excitement induced by intense displeasure.  Anger the most general term, names the reaction, but in itself conveys nothing about intensity or justification or manifestation of the emotional state.  Anger and grief are they separate?

We can be angry with ourselves and that anger can be explosive or passive.  When we cannot perform sexually sometimes the anger is internalized or it becomes uncontrollable.  We feel inadequate and want to reach out and cause anguish to ourselves or to those that we love and cherish.  We feel ‘less than.’  Our pride becomes tarnished and damaged.  To admit to defeat is out of the question.  To admit to having Erectile Dysfunction fuels our inner anger.  The inability to perform sexually attacks our manhood.  Erectile Dysfunction exposes our weakness and strips us of self-esteem.  Anger boils inside, sometimes ever so slowly and sometimes like an erupting volcano.

Misplace the anger and vent your frustration on your partner only makes the situation worse.  Contain your anger and act as though it doesn’t exist and this will definitely cause a relationship meltdown.  Own your anger and address your anger and the relationship and your self-esteem will be better.  You have a right to be angry – but you need to work through that anger to the next stage of grief.  And there is grief when you can no longer function sexually – like a death.  After you have accepted the anger stage and worked through it you begin the bargaining stage – possibly with the devil. 329

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