How To Use Sex Toys As A Couple: Overcoming Myths And Misconceptions About Sex Aids

Using Sex Toys To Spice Up Your Sex Life

Myths & Misconceptions About Using Sex Toys

using sexual devices in a relationship indicates the relationship has problems

if you use vibrators/sex toys you will become reliant on them

the use of sexual devices will be a substitute for sexual relationships

heterosexuals in a relationships do not use sex aids

using vibrators or sex toys during sexual lovemaking is unnatural

using a vibrator or sex toy means you are a sexual pervert

Reasons Why People Are Using Sex Toys

Many couples enjoy using sex toys in their sexual relationship. Sex toys & vibrators are designed to increase sexual pleasure and stimulate orgasms as part of an intimate sexual activity. They can be used on other parts of the body beyond the genital area. Although not everyone accepts the use of vibrators and sex toys, sex enhancement devices are common bedroom accessories used by both men, women and couples. According to a recent Durex Survey, 2/3rds of people don't use products to enhance their sex lives but half would like to add product in their bedroom.

Additionally, sex toys may be a valuable resource for sexual problems such as arousal difficulties and anorgasmia (inability to orgasm). Using sex toys has many benefits for women and their overall sexuality. Many women use sex toys privately for their own self pleasure to achieve an orgasm. Research has also shown that women masturbated predominately to relieve sexual tension (73%) or to get sexual pleasure (58%). Some other important reasons also include “to relax” (44.3%) and “unavailability of sexual partners” (44%).If you're new to the sex toy experience, experiment on your own through masturbation in order to learn what you like - get comfortable with yourself and masturbate by yourself privately to learn what stimulation you like the best ie. Clitoral, vaginal, or g-spot.

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Using Vibrators For Clitoral Stimulation

Studies have shown that women have an easier time achieving orgasm with direct clitoral stimulation. Most vibrators are specifically designed for the clitoris, yet there are many options beyond that; penis shaped vibrators that you can insert vaginally, smaller discreet vibrators to directly apply to your clitoris, dual vibrators that simultaneously stimulate the vaginal area, and anal vibrators, etc...

Couples Toys: Using Sex Toys As A Couple

Many women have found that once they learn what stimulates them to orgasm with a vibrator, they find it easier to incorporate it into their sexual relationship.Sex toys/vibrators are not meant to replace a partner, they can be used to expand and enrich your sex life. A vibrator can re-energize sexual intercourse for both you and your partner. Some partners may be concerned that masturbating with a vibrator alone, without their partner being involved, will be interpreted that you don't need them sexually anymore. Some women even equate it to cheating on their partners. Wrong!

Talking To Your Partner About Using Sex Toys

Many people find bringing up the idea of a vibrator intimidating. Even couples who have wonderful communication skills sometimes find it difficult to discuss sex. As an idea, during your next sexual encounter, mention how you have fantasized about using a vibrator together for added stimulation.

Perhaps over a glass of wine bring up the subject of sex toys or begin exploring online together the world of couples toys. If you feel comfortable enough with your partner, just surprise them one evening with a sex toy. If you're concerned about your partner's reaction to introducing a vibrator, get your partner involved in the vibrator shopping process and go shopping together.

Discussing your sexual desires together will bring you more sexual satisfaction and improve your relationship altogether. Adding a vibrator to your sexual repertoire can bring you both to a new level of intimacy together.