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Best Blowjob Techniques: Lesson on How to give a blow job

Let's start with a little warm-up. First you want to tease your partner a little and really build up his anticipation before getting into any techniques for giving head. Too often women just rush into giving head and start sucking. You should start by kissing and licking his head and shaft. Play with his inner thighs and his scrotum and get him really worked up before moving on to the sucking motions. With the exception of the quickie, there is no sense in doing this if you are just going to rush it. It will not be all that great for him and as I have said before, men like it more if YOU are into it. Remember, this is supposed to be enjoyable for both of you, so you should really try to prove that fact.


Start by lightly flicking your tongue over his head, just enough pressure to tell him you are here to play. Then go ahead and lick the sides of his shaft and his head to get it lubricated. Remember to keep using your hands during this process. Stroke his legs and thighs, play with his balls, or if your man is into it, you can stick a finger in his anus. This will help stimulate his prostate while you're giving head. Use caution here as this may cause discomfort for some partners. Always make sure that this is something they would be into before your fingers start exploring.


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After you've given him a few licks, try lightly blowing air on him. Make sure this is a light breath. Heavy spurts of air are going to take him out of the moment, so you want to blow lightly enough for him to barely feel it. This simple technique of giving head will arouse nearly any man, so that is always a great way to begin.


Once you are ready to pick up the pace and really get things started, there are a few oral sex techniques that you can try. These fellatio techniques are not too difficult for you to learn, but they will be impossible for him to ever forget. Now without further ado, here are the mind-blowing best blowjob techniques that no woman should be without.

THE BEST BLOWJOB (FELLATIO) TECHNIQUES

Best Blow Job Technique #1: The Silken Swirl


To get things started, you can try a technique called the silken swirl. Continually circle his penis with your tongue while sliding it in and out of your mouth. As you grow accustomed to this technique, you can spice it up by increasing speed, slowing down, or pointing your tongue to apply more pressure.


Best Blow Job Technique #2: Lucky Number Eight


You can do figure eights with your tongue as you take him more fully into your mouth. Since your tongue can be hard and slightly pointy, or flat and soft, you have the option of applying different pressures to this technique. Mix it up and see which way works best for you and your partner. In addition, vary the speeds and size of the eights. If you go down with wide, slow, and soft movements, then come back up with shorter, faster, and more pressured movements. This variation will keep him guessing and it will undoubtedly keep him coming back for more.


Best Blow Job Technique #3: Automatic Hoover


Many men enjoy the feeling of suction, like a vacuum cleaner. A person's mouth automatically forms a vacuum when giving good head, so use it to your advantage. When you place your lips around the penis, close it off with your lips to form a seal and then suck some of the air out of your mouth. As you move your head up and down, suction is created providing a pleasant amount of resistance. Continue to use your tongue as you suck. Be sure to find out how much pressure your partner likes beforehand. Too much pressure can take him out of the mood and too little basically defeats the purpose of this oral sex technique. Try a fun little teaser game by asking your man to suck your finger with the same amount of pressure that he would like to receive. That way you know, and you have fun in the process!


Best Blow Job Technique #4: Butterfly Flick


Another technique of giving head that can be a lot of fun is the butterfly flick. Start by flicking your tongue back and forth lightly and rapidly across the delicate corona. After several flicks, run your tongue from base to head - you can choose to do this while your tongue is in a point or with your tongue laying flat - and then flick the penis up and down the same path.


Best Blow Job Technique #5: Butterfly Flutter


For an interesting variation on the flick, let's look at the butterfly flutter. Firmly wrap your lips around the penis where you can reach the tip comfortably. Gently flick the tip of the head with your tongue a few times and then slowly suck the penis further into your mouth. Do not take in too much; only go as far as where your tongue can still reach the tip of the penis comfortably. Lick the distance a few times to be sure that it is a comfortable distance and then "flutter" your tongue up and down the length of the penis in your mouth.

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Best Blow Job Technique #6: Storm Front


A little mixture of hot and cold can go a long way in giving a great blowjob. For this technique of giving good head, take his penis into your mouth and suck it in going as far as you are comfortable with. Once you reach the bottom, or where you are comfortable, open your mouth as wide as you can. You are going to suck in as much breath as your lungs can hold as you travel back up his shaft. Swirl your tongue on the underside for additional sensations. Once you reach the tip of his penis, your lungs should be full. One the way back down, slowly exhale the air and continue the swirling motions with your tongue. This will 'cool' the penis on the upstroke and 'warm' it on the down stroke.


Best Blow Job Technique #7: The Quickie


Here is the one exception to the rule of taking things slow. This technique of giving head should only be used when you are short on time, such as a lunch break visit to the office. It is fairly easy to give your man an orgasm by simply sucking on the most sensitive parts of his penis. Place your lips around your partner's head and twirl your lips and your tongue around the corona and frenulum. Keep your mouth wet and gently continue your movements until he orgasms. This will not take long and no other fellatio techniques or hand movements are required, though you can incorporate them if you would like to.

Now that you've learned how to give a blowjob, give him the Best Blow


And that’s all there is to it. With all of these oral sex techniques at your disposal, you’re bound to become the best Blowjob Queen. Just remember to be enthusiastic, to vary things up, and to play around with these different methods. As with all things in life, practice makes perfect. So now you will have to practice until you can practice no more.


Before you throw this guide to the side and begin your practice, try to contain yourself for just a few more moments to learn a few more tricks of the trade. By the time you learn all of these fellatio tips, he won’t be willing to trade you in for anything or anyone!

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