The Outer Lips
As you begin your quest of learning about female sexual anatomy, you should start with the spots that are easiest to find. Ironically enough, the spots that are easiest to find are also the parts that are easiest to ignore. A woman's outer lips, also known as her labia majora, are exactly what they sound like. They encompass the protruding area on the outside of the vulva. Just because they are not the outside does not mean that you should ignore the outer lips. Since this part of a woman's anatomy is frequently ignored, it will be extra sensitive to your touch.
The Inner Lips
As the name might imply, a woman's inner lips, or her labia minora, are located on the inside of her vulva. They can best be described as the fleshy curtains that surround all of the areas that are considered hot spots. You may again be tempted to ignore this set of lips because you are in a hurry to get to the good stuff. Refrain from that temptation and remember that all parts of a woman's genitalia are sensitive, even if they do not directly lead to an orgasm.
This is the body part that you've been anticipating. A woman's clitoris is the most sensitive part of her body. In fact, the clitoris is the most sensitive part of any human's body. This tiny little nub has more nerve endings than what can be found in an entire penis combined. Given its sensitivity, the clitoris usually hides itself under a tiny little raincoat known as the clitoral hood. If a woman is highly aroused, her clitoral hood may retreat and expose her clitoris in all its glory. However, many women need a bit of help in this area, so you may have to pry the tiny bump of skin back. Once the hood is peeled back, the clitoris will be exposed. You will be able to identify the clitoris once you find the
smooth, small, and round piece of flesh that wasn't there a moment ago. Since the clitoris can range from the size of the tip of a pen to the tip of a finger, it may be hard to locate. Once it is located, you should always treat it very gently because it does not take much unwanted pressure to make the clitoris hide under its hood again.
As you already know, the vaginal opening is the area that must be penetrated to make sex possible. Once you get past the opening, you will find yourself within the realm of the vagina. Here you will find quite a few body parts, most of which will not make a huge difference in her life. The only thing that you should really know about within the vagina is the g-spot – but that's a topic for a whole other article!
Now that you know what you are dealing with, you should be able to make that flower bloom. Just be sure to pay attention to every part of a woman's sexual anatomy and your job should become as simple as it is pleasurable.