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Pleasing your man: To Give Him The Best Blowjob Be CONFIDENT

Your attitude towards going down on your man is going to play a large role in whether or not you are orally pleasing your man and whether he will enjoy your performance. The specifics of this will be talked about in other sections, but do not underestimate the power of perception. If you view something as a chore or something that is dirty and wrong, then you will never be great – even with great techniques you won’t be able to orally please a man. Part of what makes this a personal art is that you should enjoy what you are doing. If you don’t, then do not bother to offer because he will know the difference and feel slighted by your efforts.


Imagine for a moment that your man is lying on the bed. You strip his clothes off in a hurried manner like you just want to get this over with. You take him in your mouth and go up and down with no passion at all. You try a technique or two for some effort, but nothing further. You bark at him to let you know when he is going to cum and when he does you jerk your mouth away, letting him ejaculate all over himself. Then you leave him there for more important things to do.


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Did you know?

The first depicted imagery of a fellatio performance was from the ancient Egyptians.

This is not a great image and it certainly is not going to blow his mind away, either. Let’s not forget the fact that we would not like to be treated so carelessly in our throes of passion, so why would we want to treat our partners this way? Let’s try another visual and see how much more appealing this can really be.


Pleasing your man: Best Blowjob Scenario

Imagine that your man is lying on the bed again, but this time you walk towards him with seduction on your mind. You reach him and slowly take his clothes off, careful to caress him here and there along the way. You start at his ankles and work your way up, caressing and teasing him. You keep your eyes on him the whole time, showing him your passion and desire for him. You lightly lick the tip of his head and run your hands over his balls, caressing and playing with him. You take him into your mouth and you really give him everything you have. You tease him, you take your time, and you make him crazy with desire. He is bucking and thrusting his hips in desperation, but still you take your time. When he finally reaches his orgasm you allow him his release and share his passion.


Now, isn’t that a much better visual then the first scenario was? Men, just like women, want to feel desired and appreciated. When their partners are disgusted by the act of pleasing them, then it is a literal ‘blow’ to their egos. No one wants to feel that their partners are turned off by the thought of orally pleasing them. If you want to be treated as though you are desired and appreciated, then try to focus on doing the same for him. This should not be looked at as something dirty, but as something fun and an opportunity to be in control. In terms of pleasing a man, it is safe to say that oral sex is highly underrated.

So now that you have the basics and friendly reminders in mind, let’s move on to the fun stuff to continue to please your man   »