Common Fellatio Mistakes

Things To Avoid When Giving Head & How to give a blow job

Up until now, you’ve learned all of the things that you could and should try when giving good head. What you might not realize is that there are certain things that you should never do to your lover unless you’re in a brutal fight. Just adhere to this simple list of no-no fixers and your oral sessions should give him something to holler about.

1.Giving Good Head: Watch YOUR teeth.

If you had to classify your teeth to one of the following categories, they would make more of a weapon than a toy. This is especially true if you have braces or another form of dental fixtures. There is nothing less sexy than tearing a hole through your lover’s penis with your teeth or with the dental equivalent of barbed wire. If you cannot help but give your teeth a leading role in your oral production, try to use some kind of tooth covering. Your local sex shop should sell the candy version of a mouth guard, so that could be tasty and effective. For a cheaper alternative, cover any chipped teeth by firmly biting onto a gummy bear or cover a whole row of teeth by firmly biting onto a strip of licorice. These solutions are as tasty as they are simple and they will prevent any unnecessary disasters from ruining your night.

 

2.Giving Good Head: Caution When Using Certain Toys

As you start getting more adventurous, certain toys may seem like a good idea when they’re really nothing to play around about. If you’re thinking of using random household items to stimulate his prostrate, think again. There are countless stories of men and women being rushed to the emergency room because their anuses ate toy cars, liquor nips, candle stubs, and a variety of other items. As a general rule of thumb, if it does not come with a string, do not insert it.

Fun Facts About Giving Head

 At times natural lubrication is just not enough; why not try a flavored lube to add some spice to giving good head.

Did you know?

Other terminology for fellatio is oral sex, giving head, blow job, and going down

 

3.Giving Good Head: Avoid the defense mechanism.

If you are orally pleasuring your partner and things aren’t going as well as you’d like, don’t get defensive. Certain techniques work on some people and do nothing for others. The only way that you can find out what your partner likes is to sample with different techniques and tricks. If you are trying a technique that simply doesn’t seem to work, just move on to something else. Do not get angry, do not get defensive, and above all else, do not get mean. While it can be tempting to point out how a certain technique rocked your ex lover’s world, that is not going to help your situation any. So if one method doesn’t work, just forget about it and move on. It’s not your fault, it’s not his fault, and it’s not this guides fault. Sometimes things just happen, so it’s best not to dwell on the negative when you have so much positive to focus on.

 

Fellatio Recap

 

We have talked about a good deal of techniques that you can try to become better at pleasing your partner. But, it isn’t all about the blow job technique that makes you great at giving head. It has a lot to do with your attitude. I’ve said it before, but it is worth saying again, If you enjoy pleasing your man, then he will enjoy it more. Confidence and communication are key elements to a stellar blowjob. A guy wants his girlfriend to be confident in what she is doing and to enjoy it. At the same time, you need to communicate with your man. Find out if he likes what you are doing. If he does not seem to be responding and you are not sure, ask him. Do not be afraid; just do not ask in the middle of your performance.

 

The point is to make oral sex pleasurable for him, but at the same time do not become a slave to just techniques. Take the opportunity to explore his body and his genitals. Get to know every part of him intimately and revel in the control that you have. Some people would reiterate this point by saying carpe diem. Well, I don’t speak much Latin, so I’ll leave you with this. Carpe penis, ladies. Carpe penis.

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